
It Has Nothing to Do

Writing
Looking at kids, I often feel complexed feelings. There are some sayings about children. “A child is a mirror of an adult”. “A child is shaped as what and how parents teach and educate”…and so on. One also said, “Do not expect children to be innocent and pure but look at them how much they act nasty and cruel like little brats. You would see all kinds of dirty and messy scenes from their playing like grown ups”. I often notice that honestly.
Once they are so cute and lovely but I also find out the real basic instincts from their acts as a human. Sometimes I am confused what is the difference between humans and animals whenever I see their uncultivated real faces. An adult is obviously a cultivated figure through lots of socializing and training for a long time. The difference is that adults know how to express their hidden desire wrapped with sophisticated manner and masks not to be blamed by others while children reveal it wide open without any shame, guilty feeling, or hesitation.
A child before cultivation does not know about right and wrong or good and bad. He or she totally follows their instincts and does whatever they want. Adults could call them rude and spoiled but they are just honest with their true feelings as they do not have any filters in their brain and followed actions by that. Actually cultivating a human is also mostly about inserting lots of customs and taboos that a society has built. Who could guarantee the society trains and educates children right as it is changed and all different by time and places in every country?
Children often ask me why they should not do certain acts or saying but mostly I also do not know the answer clearly but happen to force them to follow my order because it could be out of control in my guess. Losing control is the worst situation I could imagine around me.
Reminding my childhood, I just feel amazed how they could be so free and liberal to talk whatever they want as I could have just kept silence afraid of disciplines from teachers and parents. I think they know too much information from Youtube and internet these days.
Yet, kids could be very vulnerable to be exposed to violence and abusing as they are not fully capable to express their thoughts and recognize what is going on around them. Thus adults have obligations to protect them enough from harmful environments because certain incidents might affect on their whole life and mental health.
Though it is also true that lots of bullying or abusing things are conducted under the name of principles or disciplines as some news shows. I often hear that some parents teach their kids using sticks or physical punishment if it is needed. Also kids say some teachers often hit part of their body to train them and their parents are acceptable with that. This makes me very uncomfortable and assume that it would be far away for kids to have their proper rights as a kid in some countries.
Honestly, I also feel hard to control my emotion when a lousy kid acts rude and impulsive. It is always a huge challenge for me to talk to them without losing temper and patience in certain situations. Regardless, adults should be acknowledged with the limit of disciplines what to do or not to do. Otherwise, it only gives a bad influence on children and it can not be the āEducationā anymore.
Recently, I am very interested in minimalism. The thought came out when I looked into my closet which was full of clothes but I still could not have enough of it every in the morning although I bought it once in a while. You have it enough and buy it enough but you still donāt have it enough. I donāt know what this really means.
As I had clean the stuffs in my space, it seemed like the endless closure. I had sold, shared and thrown things away but another thing constantly came out again and again from somewhere. I could see my infinite desire and obsession clearly through those materials. The products I bought whenever I had felt emptiness and vagueness and tried to fulfill it with things but could not succeed after all.
This time, I have determined myself I would not make same mistakes and be very cautious to set up my space again. Then it is another joy and needs some creativity not to fill it with some clumsy garbages. First, I would empty my bedroom with nothing but only bed blankets. Next, I have no idea yet what to do with a living room area though because I also not get used to the too empty place. I feel nervous and strong gut to fill the area with things. I searched on some You tube channels about minimalism styled living rooms but it still seems with overly items. As I could move to another place, I do not want to struggle again with heavy moving stuffs. I would not possess a thing if it is a burden to remove.
Do I need to spread some rug sheets on the floor and leave it as it is as an exercising or meditation spot? Or do I need a comfortable desk and chairs for reading or dinner space at least? I may need that small luxury in that case. A comfortable couch is definitely tempting but I used to feel stress with the huge space consumption of it so must skip for that. I would definitely not buy a TV this time for sure. Or I may need the screen on the wall to watch You tube or internet vods. It could be wonderful if it is a bit big like a small home theater.
Buying an old camping car and fixing it is the best option but I donāt know how to drive and fix it so it would be better delay as the next project. Until then I may need a small truck to come and go. It is hard not to drive as I am almost a blind in direction. I mostly take a walk over an hour and turn around a whole town for five minutes destination.
For cooking stuffs, I only need a stainless pan and a small cattle. I would not buy tons of sources and plates as it always bugged my nerves whenever I had opened the shelves before. The kitchen was the last place I gave up to tidy up so another person did it instead of me when I moved in and out. It would not happen again this time. I would rather choose to eat out if I have to buy stuffs for cooking.
Nevertheless, I would may need a small electronic cooking pot which could make tons of dishes with a few buttons and it seems real practical. Other than that I would not buy anything really. My seven boxes have not arrived yet from the old place so I would consider to buy anything after that if I really need things.
You are all you’ve got…
ģ± ‘ģ¬ģ±ģ ź“ķ ėŖ ģøģ§’ <ė¬ė ģ¶ķģ¬> ģ¤ģģ
ė²ģ <ģ ģ¤ģģ“ ģ¶ķģ¬>
From the book ‘The Quotable Woman‘ by RUNNING PRESS
Translated by UNI Publishing
먼ģ ģģ ģ ģ¬ėķė©“ ė¤ė„ø ź²ģ ģģ”°ė”ģģ§ė¤. ģ“ ģøģģģ 묓ģģ ķė ė¹ģ ģ ģ§ģ ģ¤ģ¤ė”넼 ģź»“ģ¼ ķė¤.
ė£Øģ¤ ė³¼
Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.
LUCILLE BALL
*****
ė¹ģ ģ“ ėźµ¬ģøģ§ė„¼ ė°ģė¤ģ“źø° ģ ź¹ģ§ė ģ¤ģ¤ė” ģ§ė ź²ģ ź²°ģ½ ė§ģ”±ķ ģ ģė¤.
ėė¦¬ģ¤ ėŖØķ¼
Until you make peace with who you are, you’ll never be content with what you have.
DORIS MORTAN
*****
ķģ¬ķ ź²ģ ģģ§ ėÆøģķė©“ģ ģė Øė ģ² ķė ź²ģ“ė¤. ģ¬ėģ ź°źµ¬ķė©“ģ ķģģė ģ² ķź±°ė, ķØģ¬ ģ ķ ģ ģė ģ¼ģø ź±ø ģė©“ģ ėØģķ ģ¦źø°ėÆ ģ¬ģ ė¶ė¦¬ė ź² ė§ģ“ė¤.
ėė¦¬ģ¤ ė ģ±
What’s terrible is to pretend that the second-rate is first-rate. To pretend that you don’t need love when you do; or you like your work when you know quite well you’re capable of better.
DORIS LESSING
*****
ģ¤ķØė„¼ ģ¬ź°ķź² ė°ģė¤ģ“ģ§ ģė ź²ģ ź·øź²ė¤ģ ė ģ“ģ ėė ¤ģķģ§ ģėė¤ė ģ미ģ“ė¤. ģ¤ģ¤ė”ģ ėķ“ ģģ“ ėźø°ė ė²ģ ģė ź²ģ ģė¹ķ ģ¤ģķė¤.
ģ¼ģ린 ė§Øģ¤ķė
When we begin to take our failures nonseriously, it means we are ceasing to be afraid of them. It is of immense importance to learn to laugh at ourselves.
KATHERINE MANSFIELD
*****
ėģ 씓ģ¬ė„¼ źµģ ķė ¤ė ėØģė ķģģė¤. ź°ė„ķ ź°ģ„ ź¹ģ ź“ź³ė ģ°ė¦¬ 씓ģ¬ė¤ģ ģė ź²ģ“ė¤.
ģ 리 ė§„ķ“ė ģø
I don’t need a man to rectify my existence. The most profound relationship we’ll ever have is the one without ourselves.
SHIRLEY MacLAINE
*****
. . .ė묓 ė§ģ ģ“ė¤ģ“ 묓ģģ ģģ ķź³ , ģ ź³ , ģ“ė¤ ģ§ģ ģ¬ė ģ§, ź·øė¦¬ź³ ģ“ė¤ ģ¢ ė„ģ 차넼 ėŖØė ģ§ė” ģ¤ģ¤ė”넼 ģ ģķė¤ . . . .ė¹ģ ģ 칓넓ė ģ ģź³ė„¼ ģ°Øź³ ķ¤ė„“ė©ģ¤ ģ¤ģ¹“ķ넼 ķ ģ¬ģøģ¼ė”ė§ ģ¬źø“ė¤ė©“, ģ§ ģģ ķģ¬ė ģ¬ģ° ėæė§ ģėė¼ ė¹ģ ģ첓넼 묓ėėØė¦“ ź²ģ“ė¤.
ė¦°ė¤ ķØė¦¬
. . .So many of us define ourselves by what we have, what we wear, what kind of house we live in and what kind of car we drive . . . .If you think of yourself as the woman in the Cartier watch and the Hermes scarf, a house fire will destroy not only your possessions but your self.
LINDA HENLEY
*****
ė¤ė„ø ģ¬ėė¤ģ ģ±ź²©ģģ 볓ģ“ė ėė ·ķ ķ ź²°ź³¼ė ģ ķ ė¬ė¦¬, ė“ ģģ ģ ź²ģ ėķ“ ź³°ź³°ķ ģź°ķ ėė©“ ź²°ģ ė¤ģ“ ģģķ ķ¬ėÆøķ“ģ§ź³ , ģģķź³ , ģ¤ķė ¤ ė³ ź² ģėź² ėė¤.
ė§ź°ė ķ“ģ¬ė¦¬
Whenever I dwell for any length of time on my own shortcomings, they gradually begin to seem mild, harmless, rather engaging little things, not at all like the staring defects in other people’s characters.
MARGARET HASLEY
*****
ģģ ģź² ė묓 ėŖ°ėķė©“ ź³¼ķź² ģ°Øė ¤ģ ź² ėė¤.
ģ¼ģ“ķø ķė²ģØ
If you are all wrapped up in yourself, you are overdressed.
KATE HALVERSON
*****
ģģ ģ ź“ķ“ ķķķģ§ ė§ė¼. ė¹ģ ģ“ ź°ź³ ģė ģ ģ¬ģ°ģ“ė¤.
ģ ėģ¤ ģ”°ķ린
Don’t compromise yourself. You are all you’ve got.
JANIS JOPLIN
*****
ėŖØėź° ģģģ¼ ķ ź¶ź·¹ģ ģø źµķģ ķģø ėæ ģėė¼ ģģ ė ķ¬ķØķ 씰걓ģė ģ¬ėģ“ė¤.
ģ리ģė² ģ¤ ģ»¤ėøė”-ė”ģ¤
The ultimate lesson all of us have to learn is unconditional love, which includes not only others but ourselves as well.
ELISABETH KUBLER-ROSS
*****
ķģøģ“ ģė ģģ ģź² ź· źø°ģøģ¬ė¼.
ź±°ķøė£Øė ģ¤ķ ģø
Let me listen to me and not to them.
GERTRUDE STEIN
*****
ģ 문ź°ė ė¹ģ ģź² ģģ ģ ģģģ¹ė„¼ ė§ķ ģ ģė¤. ķģ§ė§ ģ¤ģ¹ģ ė¹ģ ė³øģ°ģ źø°ėģ¹ė„¼ ģ“ėģ“ėøė¤.
ķķøė¦¬ģ¤ ė
A master can tell you what he expects of you. A teacher, though, awakens your own expectations.
PATRICIA NEAL
*****
ģøź²©ģ ģ²ģ²ķ ķģ±ėģ§ė§ 묓ėģ§ė ź²ģ ģģź°ģ“ė¤.
ķģ“ģ¤ ė³¼ėģ
Character builds slowly, but it can be torn down with incredible swiftness.
FAITH BALDWIN
*****
ė¹ģ ģ ģź°ģ ģ ė ¹ķ ģ ź³¼ ģøģ°ė ź²ģ ģ½ģ§ ģė¤.
ģ리 ģŗ ķ¼
It is hard to fight an enemy who has outposts in your head.
SALLY KEMPTON
*****
ķė± ģ¤ģ ķėė ėØģ±ź³¼ ėė±ķ ėģ ģ ė°ė ź²ģ“ ģėź³ ė¹ģ ģ“ ėØģ넼 ėķėÆģ“ ė³øģøģ ėģ°ķė ź²ģ“ė¤.
ė§ė” ķ ė§ģ¤
One of the things about equality is not just that you be treated equally to a man, but that you treat yourself equality to the way you treat a man.
MARLO THOMAS
*****
ģ¼ķ ė ėė§ģ ėŖ©ģė¦¬ė” ģ ė” ė“ė ķ„ģ¼ź±°ė¦¼ģ ģ°øģ ėė¦¬ź° ģė¤.
뮤리ģ ģ¤ķķ¬
I see no reason to keep silent about my enjoyment of the sound of my own voice as I work.
MURIEL SPARK
*****
ė¹ģ ģ ėģģģ“ ėźµ¬ė ė¹ģ ģ ģ“ė¼ķź² ė§ė¤ ģ ģė¤.
ģė¦¬ė øģ“ ė£Øģ¦ė²Øķø
Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent.
ELEANOR ROOSEVELT
*****
ģ°ė¦¬ė ź°ģ ģ“ģ¼źø° ģ ģģ ė¤ģ“ė¤.
ė©ė¦¬ 맄칓ģ
We are the hero of our own story.
MARY McCARTHY
*****
ģ ė©ėė” ģź°ķė¼. ķģ§ė§ ķģ ģģ ģ ź°ģ„ ģ¼ėģ ė¬ė¼.
ėė¦¬ģ¤ ė ģ±
Think wrongly, if you please, but in all cases think for yourself.
DORIS LESSING
*****
ė¹ģ ģ“ ģ§ģ¤ģ ė§ģ£¼ķźø° ģ ź¹ģ§ ź·øģ ķ¼ėģ¤ė½ė¤.
ķ ė² ģ¼ė¦¬
You never find yourself until you face the truth.
PEARL BAILEY
*****
ģ±ģøģ ģ¤ģ§ ģ±ģøģź²ė§ ė©ėėė¤.
ķė©ė¼ ķøģ¤ķ¬ė 씓ģØ
Sainthood is acceptable only in saints.
PAMELA HANSFORD JOHNSON
*****
ģøģģ ģė ź²¬ź³ ķ“ģ ģ¬ź±“ė¤ģ“ ź·ø ģģø”ģ ķģ§ė, ķ ģė, ė§ģ¶ģ§ė ėŖ» ķ ź²ģ“ė¤.
ģ¬ė”Æ ėøė” ķ
Life is so constructed, that the event does not, cannot, will not, match the expectation.
CHARLOTTE BRONTE
*****
ėė ģ주 ź²øģģ ķ¤ģø ķģ“ ģģ¼ė©“ ķė¤ . . . ķģ§ė§ ėģ ėķ ģź°ė§ģ¼ė”ė ė묓 ė°ģė¤.
ģėģ¤ ģķøģ°
I have often wished I had time to cultivate modesty . . . But I am too busy thinking about myself.
EDITH SITWELL
*****
ė¶ė øė ė¹ģ ģ ėģ ģ ė©“ģ¼ė” ģģķė¤. ź·øė ė ź¶ė „ ė¶ėė°©ė¤ģ ė³ ź°ķ„ģ“ ģź³ ģ²ģ¹ė²ģ ģė¤. ź·ø ģ©źø°ė ė¹ķµģ ėė ¤ģķģ§ ģź³ , ź·øė ė ėģģ“ ķģ¤ģ¹ ģģ ė ģ”°ģ°Ø ź°źµ¬ķźø° ė§ė¤ķģ§ ģėė¤. ź·øė ź° ź±øģģ ė ė ģøė”ģģģ ź³ ė ģ¼ė” ź°ė źøøģ ģ ķķ ź²ģ ė¶ėŖ ķė¤. ģ¬ėė¤ģ“ ė“ź² ź·øė ź° ėØķøķė¤ź³ ķ ź²ģ ź±°ģ§ģ“ ģėģė¤. ėØģ§ ź·øė ź° ģ¹ģ ķė¤ė ź²ģ ė¹ ėØė øė¤.
J. ė¬ģ¤ ģ ė¤ė¬
Outrage looks you straight in the eye. She is not impressed with power trippers, and she knows first aid. Courage is not afraid to weep, and she is not afraid to pray, even when she is not sure who she is praying to. When she walks it is clear she has made the journey from loneliness to solitude. The people who told me she was stern were not lying; they just forgot to mention she was kind.
J. RUTH GENDLER
*****
ėė ź·ø ģ¬ķģ“ ģ“ģ ź» ź²½ķķ ģ¬ģ ģ¤ ģµź³ ģ“źøø ė°ėė¤. ģ°ė¦¬ ģģ ģ¼ė”ģ ķķ.
ģ 리 ė§„ķ“ėģø
I hoped that the trip would be the best of all journeys: a journey into ourselves.
SHIRLEY MacLAINE
*****
ķģøģ“ ė“ź° ģ“ė¤ ģ¬ėģ“ ėźø° ė°ė¼ėģ§ ģģ차리ėė”, ź·øė¦¬ź³ ź·øė ź² ėźø° ģķ“ ģė¼ė¬ė¤. ėØģ ģģ ģ¼ė” ė넼 ķź°ķģ§ ģėė” ź½¤ ģ¤ė ģģ¼ģ“ ź±øė øė¤.
ģ리 ķė
I was raised to sense what someone wanted me to be and be that kind of person. It took me a long time not to judge myself through someone else’s eyes.
SALLY FIELD
*****
ė¬“ģøź°ź° ģė ėźµ°ź°ź° ėźø°ė” ķ ė ģ¼ė§ė ė§ģ ė°°ė ¤ė¤ģ ģėź°.
ģ½ģ½ ģ¤ė¬
How many cares one loses when one decides not to be something, but to be someone.
COCO CHANEL
*****
ėė ģ ėģģ“ ź²ģ“ ķģ ģ ź²½ģ°ģė¤. ė§ģ¼ ėģ ģ“ė° ģ°Øģ“ģ ģ“ ķģ¼ ģģ°ģ“ ė ģ ģė¤ė ź±ø ģģė¤ė©“ ģ“린 ģģ ź³ ėÆ¼ģ“ ķØģ¬ ė ķģ ź²ģ“ė¤.
ė°°ķø ėÆøė¤ė¬
I didn’t belong as a kid, and that always bothered me. If only I’d known that one day my differentness would be an asset, then my early life would have been much easier.
BETTE MIDLER
*****
ė¹ģ ģ ķ ė ź±°ģ¹Øģģė¤. ź³ ė¶ķ“ģ§ģ§ ė§ė¼!
ģ“ģ¬ėė¼ ė컨
You were once wild here. Don’t let them tame you!
ISADORA DUNCAN
*****
It can let the nice things come out…
ģ± ‘ģ¬ģ±ģ ź“ķ ėŖ ģøģ§’ <ė¬ė ģ¶ķģ¬> ģ¤ģģ
ė²ģ <ģ ģ¤ģģ“ ģ¶ķģ¬>
From the book ‘The Quotable Woman‘ by RUNNING PRESS
Translated by UNI Publishing
ģ±ź³µģ ė¹ģ ģ ė ģ¤ ķėģ ģ¬ģ ģ¼ė” ģ“ė ģ ģė¤. ė¹ģ ģ ķ리ė§ėėė” ė§ė¤ź±°ė, ķ¹ģ ķėķ ź²ė¤ģ ģģ”°ė”ź² ķź³ , ģķķ ź²ė¤ģ ģ ź±°ķė©°, ģ¢ģ ģ¼ė¤ģ“ ģź²Øėź² ķė¤.
ė°ė°ė¼ ģķ°ģ¤
Success can make you go one of two ways. It can make you a prima donna, or it can smooth the edges, take away the insecurities, let the nice things come out.
BARBARA WALTERS
*****
ģ„ ģøģģģģ 문ģ ė ė¹ģ ģ“ ģ¤ģ¬ ģ“ź²Øė ģ¬ģ ķ ģ„ ė°ģ ģėė¤ė ģ ģ“ė¤.
릓리 ķ°ė¦°
The trouble with being in the rat race is that even if you win, you’re still a rat.
LILY TOMLIN
*****
ģ¼ģ ė¹ģ ģ“ ģģ§ķź³ , ģ 뢰ķ ģ ģė, ķģģ – ķģ ė¹ģ ź³ģ ģģ – ģ¹źµ¬ģ“ė¤.
ė§ź°ė ė²ķ¬-ķģ“ķø
Work is something you can count on, a trusted, lifelong friend who never deserts you.
MARGARET BOURKE-WHITE
*****
ėė ź³ ė ģ¼ ģģ“ ģ ģģ ģ¤ė„ø ģ¬ėģ ģģ§ ėŖ» ķė¤. ź·øź²ģ“ ė¹ź²°ģ“ė¤. ģ ģź¹ģ§ ķģģ ģėģ“ė ź½¤ ź°ź¹ģ“ė ģ“ė ź²ģ“ė¤.
ė§ź°ė ėģ²
I do not know anyone who has got to the top without hard work. That is the recipe. It will not always get you to top, but should get you pretty near.
MARGARET THATCHER
*****
ģ묓ė ģ¬ė„ė§ ź°ź³ ģ±ź³µķ ģ ģė¤. ģ ģ ģ¬ė„ź³¼ ģ¼ėØøė¦¬ė„¼ ģ£¼ģź³ , ģ¼ģ ģ¬ė„ģ ė¹ė²ķź² ė§ė ė¤.
ģė ķėøė”ė°
No one can arrive from being talented along. God gives talent, work talent, work transforms talent into genius.
ANNA PAVLOVA
*****
ė¹ģ ģ“ ģ¤ģ¤ė” ģ»ģ ėŖ ģ±ģ ė¹ģ ģź² ė¶ģ¬ė ź²ź³¼ė ģ¬ė ėėģ“ ė¤ė„“ė¤.
źøė”리ģ ė°“ėė¹ķø
The fame you earn has a different taste from the fame that is forced upon you.
GLORIA VANDERBILT
*****
ģ±ź³µķźø° ģķ“ ķ“ģ¼ ķ ģ²«ė² ģ§øė ė¹ģ ģ ģ¼ģ ģ¬ėķė ź²ģ“ė¤.
ė§ė¦¬ ė”ė ķ ģė
To be successful, the first thing to do is fall in love with your work.
SISTER MARY LAURETTA
*****
ė“ź² ģ±ź³µģ“ė ģ“ ź°ģ ģµģźø ė©ė” ė¤ģ 먹ģ¼ė©“ģ ź°ź° ģė§ ģ“ģ§ ė§ ė³“ė ź²ģ“ė¤.
ė°ėøė¼ ģ¤ķøė¼ģ“ģė
Success for me is having ten honeydew melons and eating only the top half of each one.
BARBRA STREISAND
*****
They went out and happened to things…
ģ± ‘ģ¬ģ±ģ ź“ķ ėŖ ģøģ§’ <ė¬ė ģ¶ķģ¬> ģ¤ģģ
ė²ģ <ģ ģ¤ģģ“ ģ¶ķģ¬>
From the book ‘The Quotable Woman‘ by RUNNING PRESS
Translated by UNI Publishing
ėŖØė ģ¬ź°ķ ėģ ģ ė“ė¶ė”ė¶ķ° ģģėė¤.
ģ ėė¼ ģ°ķ°
All serious daring starts from within.
EUDORA WELTY
*****
ė¹ģ ģ“ ė¬“ģøź°ė„¼ ķ“ģ¼ ķ ģģ ģ ģė¬“ė ź·øź²ģ ģģ¹ ģģ ė, ģ ė§ė¤ ė¶ź°ė„ķė¤ź³ ė§ķ ė ģ“ė¤.
ė§ė¦¬ ķėģģ¤ ė² ė¦¬
The time when you need to do something is when no one else is willing to do it, when people are saying it can’t be done.
MARY FRANCES BERRY
*****
ķėģ ģ¢ģ ģ ėķ ķ“ź²°ģ± ģ“ė¤.
ģ”°ģ ė°°ģø
Action is the antidote to despair.
JOAN BAEZ
*****
ź°ģ ģģ ė§ģ ģģ ģ§ėź° ģė¤—ģ”°ź¹ ķźø°, 그림 그리기, ģģ, ėģ, ģ ėźø°, ģ ģź°ź¾øźø°. ė¤ė§ ķė ź·ø ģ첓볓ė¤ė ģģ ģ ģė ź°ķģ ģ§ģ¤ķė ź²ģ“ ė ģ¤ģķė¤.
Each person has his own safe place—running, painting, swimming, fishing, weaving, gardening. The activity itself is less important than the act of drawing on your resources.
BARBARA GORDON
*****
ė¹ģ ģ“ ķ ģ ģė¤ė©“ ķ ģ ģė ź²ģ“ź³ ķ ģ ģė¤ė©“ ź·ø ģģ ģ³ė¤.
ė§ė¦¬ ģ¼ģ“ ģ ģ¬
If you think you can, you can. And if you think you can’t, you’re right.
MARY KAY ASH
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ģ“ė¤ ģ“ė 묓ģģ ķ“ģėģ§ė„¼ ģ ķ ėŖ» ė³øė¤. ģ¤ģ§ 묓ģģ“ ģ“루ģ“ģ øģ¼ ķė ģ§ė„¼ ė³øė¤.
매리 커리
One never notices what has been done; one can only see what remains to be done.
MARIE CURIE
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ė¹ź“ė” ģė ķģ±ė¤ģ ė¹ė°ģ ė°ź²¬ķź±°ė, 미ģ§ģ ģģģ ķķ“ķź±°ė, ķ¹ģ ģøź° ģ ģ ģ ģė”ģ“ ģģģ ź°ģ²ķ ģ ģė¤.
ķ¬ė ģ¼ė¬
No pessimist ever discovered the secrets of the stars, or sailed to an uncharted land, or opened a new heaven to the human spirit.
HELEN KELLER
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미ė넼 ė³¼ ė ė묓 ėģ“ ė¶ģ ģ ėģ“ ė© ģ§ź²½ģ“ė¤.
ģ¤ķė¼ ģķ리
When I look into the future, it’s so bright it burns my eyes.
OPRAH WINFREY
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ė¹ģ ģ“ ė¬“ģøź° ėė ģ¼ģ ė묓 ė¦ģ ėė ģė¤.
ģ”°ģ§ ģ리ģ
It is never too late to be what you might have been.
GEORGE ELIOT
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ė¹ģ ģ“ ź·øź²ģ ķ ģ ģė¤ė©“ ģ ķ“ģ¼ ķėź°?
ź±°ķøė£Øė ģ¤ķ ģø
If you can do it then why do it?
GERTRUDE STEIN
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ģøģģ ģ“ģ ź°ė ź²ģ“ė¤. ė¹ģ ģ¤ģ¤ė”넼 ģķė¤ė©“ ķ„미ė”ģø ģ¼ģ ģ°¾ģ ėģė ź²ģ“ ė«ė¤. ėØģ§ ģģģ ģģ ģ ėķ“ ź±±ģ ķź³ ģģ ź²ģ“ ģėė¼.
ģ¼ģ린 ķµė².
Life is to be lived. If you have to support yourself, you had bloody well better find some way that is going to be interesting. And you don’t do that by sitting around wondering about yourself.
KATHARINE HEPBURN
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ģ¶ģģ ė¹ģ ģ“ ģ“루ģ“ėø ź²ė¤ ė³“ė¤ ė ģ¤ģ§ģ ģø ź²ģ ģė¤ . . .ź°ģ°Øģģ“, ėģ“ķ¬ ģ ģź² ėėø ģ¼ė¤.
ģ¬ė¼ ķ°ģ¤ė°ģ¼
There’s nothing half so real in life as the things you’ve done . . .inexorably, unalterably done.
SARAH TEASDALE
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ė§ģ½ ķ“ģ¼ķ ģ¼ģ“ė¼ė©“ ķė¼. ģ“ėŖ ģ“ė ė넼 ģ ėŖØė„“ė ėźµ°ź°ģ ģģ ė§”źø°ģ§ ė§ė¼. ģģ ģ ź°ģ„ ģ ģė ģ“ė ė³øģøģ“ė¤. ķ ė² ģ¬ķøķ”ķź³ ģ ģ§ķė¼.
ģ ėķ ė² ģ“커
I say if it’s going to be done, let’s do it. Let’s not put it in the hands of fate. Let’s not put it in the hands of someone who doesn’t know me. I know me best. Then take a breath and go ahead.
ANITA BAKER
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ģģ ģė ėŖØė ģķģ ė¬“ė¦ ģ°ź³ ź²°ź³¼ź° ģ¢ģ§ ģģģė ź²°źµ ģ씓ķ, ź·ø ģ“ė ėė³“ė¤ ģģ¦ ģ°ė¦¬ģź² ķģķ, ķØģ¬ ėė“ķ ģ¬ģ±ė¤ģ“ ģģė¤.
ź²ė§ģø 그리ģ“
There have been women in the past far more daring than we would need to be now, who ventured all and gained a little, but survived after all.
GERMAINE GREER
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ėģ ģ“머ėė ģ±ģ·Øģ ģ±ź³µģ¬ģ“ģ źµ¬ė¶ģ ėģė¤. ź·øė ź° ė§ķė ģ±ģ·Øė ģµģ ģ ė¤ķ“ ģ“ģ¬ķ ź³µė¶ķź³ ģ¼ķė ź²ģ“ė¤. ģ±ź³µģ“ė ė¤ė„ø ģ¬ėė¤ģź² ģ¹ģ°¬ģ ė°ė ź²ģøė° ź·øź² ģģ ģ¢ģ ģ¼ģ“ė¤. ķģ§ė§ ģ±ģ·Øė³“ė¤ė ė ģ¤ģķź³ ė§ģ”±ģ¤ė½ė¤. ķģ ģ±ź³µė³“ė¤ė ģ±ģ·Øģ ģ§ģ¤ķ“ģ¼ ķė¤.
ķ¬ė ķ“ģ“ģ¦
My mother drew a distinction between achievement and success. She said that achievement is the knowledge that you have studied and worked hard and done the best that is in you. Success is being praised by others, and that’s nice, too, but not as important or satisfying. Always aim for achievement and forget about success.
HELEN HAYES
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ė“ź° ģ¤ė«ėģ 주목ķ ģ±ģ·Øė„¼ ģ“룬 ģ¬ėė¤ģ ź±°ģ 주ģ ķė ģ¼ ģģ“ ė¬“ģØ ģ¼ģ“ė ķė¤ė ź²ģ“ė¤. ź·øė¤ģ ė°ģ“ė¤ģź³ ģ¼ģ ģ“루ģ“ģ”ė¤.
ģė¦¬ė øģ“ ģ¤ėÆøģ¤
It had long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things.
ELINOR SMITH
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ģ“ģ주ģģė¤ . . .ė°ėģ 주ģ넼 źø°ģøģ¼ ģ ėė” ģėķ“ģ. . .ģøė„넼 ė°ģ ģķ¤ź³ ģøģģ ķģė”ź² ķ“ģė¤.
ģ ė§ ź³Øė먼
Idealists . . .foolish enough to throw caution to the winds. . .have advanced mankind and have enriched the world.
EMMA GOLDMAN
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ėŖØė ģ“ź° ģ¬ė„ģ“ ģė¤. ė¤ė§ ź·ø ģ¬ė„ģ ģ«ģ ķė ģźø°ė„¼ 견ėė ģ©źø°ė ķģ¹ ģė¤.
ģ리칓 ģ
Everyone has talent. What is rare is the courage to follow the talent to the dark place where it leads.
ERICA JONG
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ė¹ģ ģ ģøģ , ģ“ė»ź² 죽ģ ģ§ ź²°ģ ķ ģ ģė¤. ģ¤ė”ģ§ ķģ¬, ģ“ė»ź² ģ“ ģ§ė§ ź²°ģ ķ ģ ģė¤.
ģ”°ģ ė² ģø
You don’t get to choose how you’re going to die. Or when. You can only decide how you’re going to live. Now.
JOAN BAEZ
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묓ė¦ģ ėź³ ģ¬ėė ģ ģ±ė” 죽ė ķøģ“ ė«ė¤.
ėė”ė ģ¤ ģ“ė°ė£Øė¦¬
It is better to die on your feet than to live on your knees.
DOLORES IBARRURI
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ģ¤ķØķė¤ė©“ ģ¤ė§ķ ģ¼ģ“ģ§ė§ ģėķģ§ ģėė¤ė©“ ė¶ķķ ģ¼ģ“ė¤.
ė¹ė²ė¦¬ ģ¤ģ¦
You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don’t try.
BEVERLY SILLS
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ė§ģ½ ė¹ģ ģ“ ź³¼ź±°ģ 묓ģģ ģ“루ģėģ§ģ ėØøė¬¼ė¬ ģė¤ė©“ ź·øź²ģ ė ģ“ģ ė°ģ ģ“ ģėė¤. ėė ź³ģ ģ ģ§ķė¤.
ė ģ¬ė¦¬ 칓ė”
I think it’s the end of progress if you stand still and think of what you’ve done in the past. I keep on.
LESLIE CARON
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ėė ė¶ģź° ėźø°ė„¼ ź°ė§ķģ§ė§ ė¶ė„¼ ģźø° ģķ“ ķė ģ§ģ ģ ķ ķź³ ģ¶ģ§ ģė¤.
ź±°ķøė£Øė ģ¤ķ ģø
I do want to get rich but I never want to do what there is to do to get rich.
GERTRUDE STEIN
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ģ“ģ ė ėģ ķźø° ģķ“ ģ ģ¼ź³ ģ¤ėģ ģ¹ė¦¬ķźø° ģķ“ ėģ ķė¤.
ė² ė¤ėķø ė°ėøė¦°
Yesterday I dared to struggle. Today I dare to win.
BERNADETTE DEVLIN
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ėģ“ ė ģ ģ¬ė¼ģ¼ ķ ė ź²°ģ½ ė°ė„ģ źø°ź³ ģģ ģė ģė¤.
ķ¬ė ģ¼ė¬
One can never consent to creep when one feels an impulse to soar.
HELEN KELLER
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ģ°ė¦¬ė ė³“ķµ ģė²ģ§ ķģ ķź³ ķģ , ģ매ė¤, ź·øė¦¬ź³ ķźµģ ģ ģė¤ģ ķķ“ģ¼ ķė¤ź³ ģź³ ģė¤. ėźµ¬ė„¼ ė¹ėķė ģ“ė ź²½ģ°ģė ģ¤ģ¤ė”넼 ģė§ķ“ģė ģėė¤. ź²°ģ½ ė¹ģ ģ ģėŖ»ģ“ ģėė¤. ķģ§ė§ ė ģģ ė³øģø ėė¬øģ¼ ģ ģė¤. ģ¤ģ ė³ķ넼 ģķė¤ė©“ ė¹ģ ģ“ ź·ø ė³ķģķ¬ ė¹ģ¬ģģ“źø° ė문ģ“ė¤. ģ주 ėØģķ ź² ģėź°?
ģ¼ģ린 ķµė²
. . .We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers—you can blame anyone, but never blame your self. It’s never your fault. But it’s ALWAYS your fault, because if you wanted to change, you’re the one who has got to change. It’s as simple as that, isn’t it?
KATHARINE HEPBURN
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ģ§ķģ ė§ė¤ PEARLS OF WISDOM
āļø The Translator’s Comment
ģ± ‘ģ¬ģ±ģ ź“ķ ėŖ ģøģ§’ <ė¬ė ģ¶ķģ¬> ģ¤ģģ
ė²ģ <ģ ģ¤ģģ“ ģ¶ķģ¬>
From the book ‘The Quotable Woman‘ by RUNNING PRESS
Translated by UNI Publishing
ģ¬ģ±ģ ģ¶©ė¶ķ ģķģ“ė¤. ģ ģ¬ė „ģ ģ°½ģ”°ķź³ , ė²ģ±ģķ¤ź³ , ė³ķģķ¤ė ź²ģ“ė¤. ė¹ ģģ“ė ģ묓ź²ė ģ“매넼 ė§ŗģ ģ ģė¤ė ź²ģ ź·øė ė ģź³ ģė¤. ģ“ ė°©ķ©ķė ė³ķģ ģźø°ģ ģ¬ģ±ģ ėŖ©ģ리넼 ė£ź³ ź·øė ģ ģ¬ģ„ģ“ ģ“ėė ėė” ģ°ė¦¬ė„¼ ģė“ķėė” ķė¼.
ė¤ģ“ģ¤ ė©ė¦¬ģ°Øģ¼ė
A woman is the full circle. Within her is the power to create, nurture, and transform. A woman knows that nothing can come to fruition without light. Let us call upon woman’s voice and woman’s heart to guide us in this age of planetary transformation.
DIANE MARIECHILD
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ź·øė ė ė°§ģ¤ģ 매ė¬ė ¤ ģė ģģ ģ ķė¤ģ ķė¤ė©“ ģ ėė¤. ź·øė ė ģ“ė¬ė¤ ģ ė¬ė¤ ģ ė©ėė” ķ ģė ģė¤. ź·øė ė ģ리넼 ģ§ė¬ģė ģ ėė¤. ė¬¼ė” ė©“ģ¬ķ¬ė„¼ ģ“ ģ± ė“ė°° ķ ź°ķ¼ė„¼ ė¹¼ģ“ ė¬¼ ģė ģė¤.
ģė°ė¦¬ ķ¬ģ¤ķø
She must not swing her arms as though they were dangling ropes; she must not switch herself this way and that; she must not shout; and she must not, while wearing her bridal veil, smoke a cigaret.
EMILY POST
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ģØķķź³ , ģøė“ķź³ , ģ¬ģ¹ģź³ , ź²øģķź³ , ź³ ź²°ķź³ , ģ©źø°ģźø° ģķ“ģ ėØģėµź±°ė ģ¬ģ±ģ¤ė¬ģģ¼ķė ź²ģ ģėė¤. ė¤ė§ ģ¬ėė¤ģģ¼ķė ź²ģ“ė¤.
ģ ģø ķ“리ģØ
To be meek, patient, tactful, modest, honorable, brave, is not to be either manly or womanly; it is to be humane.
JANE HARRISON
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ģ¬ģ±ģ ķģ“ėė ź²ģ“ ģėė¤. ģ¬ģ±ģ¼ė” ģė¼ė ź²ģ“ė¤.
ģėŖ¬ė ė 볓ė“ė„“
One is not born a woman, one becomes one.
SIMONE DE BEAUVOIR
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기씓ģ ģ ķµģ ģø ģ¬ģ±ģģ ė°ė„“ė ź²ģ ė©ģ¶ ė ė§ģ¹Øė“ ģ§ģ ķ ģ¬ģ±ģ±ģ ėė¦¬ź² ėė¤.
ė² ķ° ķ리ė“
When she stopped conforming to the conventional picture of
femininity she finally began to enjoy being a woman.
BETTY FRIEDAN
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ė“ź° ģė ė¹ė²ķ ģ¬ģ±ģ“ė ź°ģ¹ė„¼ ģ ėķź³ ķØź³¼ģ ģ¼ė” ģ°½ģģ ģ“ė©° ėģ²“ė” ģģ ģ“ė¤.
ė§ź°ė ķė¬
The especial genius of woman I believe to be electrical in movement, intuitive in function, spiritual in tendency.
MARGARET FULLER
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ķģ“ėģ 18ģø ź¹ģ§ ģė ė ķė„ķ ė¶ėŖØė„¼ ķģė” ķė¤. 18ģø ė¶ķ° 35ģø ź¹ģ§ė ģøėŖØź° ģė¦ė¤ģģ¼ ķė¤. ģ“ķ 55ģø ź¹ģ§ė ģ¹ģ ķ ģ±ķģ“ ķģķė¤. 55ģø ģ“ķ ė¶ķ°ė ė§ėķ ģ¬ģ°ģ“ ģźµ¬ėė¤.
ģķ¼ ķ°ģ»¤
From birth to age 18 a girl needs good parents. From 18 to 35 she needs good looks. From 35 to 55 she needs a good personality. From 55 on, she needs good cash.
SOPHIE TUCKER
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ź·øė ģ ķøģ§ė„¼ ė°ģ볓기 ģ ź¹ģ§ ź·ø ģ¬ģ±ģ ģė¤ź³ ķ ģ ģė¤.
ģė¤ ė ė²ģØ
You don’t know a woman until you have had a letter.
ADA LEVERSON
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źøģ ģ“ ė¹ģ¬ģź° ėźµ¬ģøģ§ ķģ ķė ź²ģ ķ„미ė”ģø ģ ģė¤. ģė§ė ė³øģøģ ė³µģ”ķ ģ 첓ģ±ģ ķķģ¼ ź²ģ“ė¤.
ė¹ķøė¼ģ“ģ¤ ģ¹
It would be curious to discover who it is to whom one writes in a diary. Possibly to some mysterious personification of one’s own identity.
BEATRICE WEBB
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ė¹ģ ģ“ ģ¬ģ± ź“ė Ø ģ“ģģ ź·ø ģķ©ģ ķ ėģ ģ ķź² ėė©“, ź·øź²ė¤ģ“ ķķ, ģź³ ķØ, ź³µėģ²“ģ ź°ģ ź°ė ź³¼ ė°ģ ķ ź“ė Øģ“ ģė¤ė ź²ģ ģź² ėė¤. ģ¬ģ±ģ¼ė”ģ ģ°ė¦¬ė ģ¬ķģ ė¦¬ėź° ėė ė²ģ ė°°ģģ¼ ķė¤. ėØģ§ ģ°ė¦¬ ģģ ė§ģ ģģź° ģė ėŖØė ģ“ė¤ģ ģķ“ģ. ģ°ė¦¬ģ ė¤ģ ģøė넼 ģķ“ ģ£¼ė³ķź²½ģ ģė ź°ģ”±ģ ģ§ģ§ķź³ ė³“ķøķ“ģ¼ ķė¤.
ģ°Øģ“ė ź°¤ė°ė
Once you live with the issue of woman and the landscape for a while, you find that you cannot separate them from the notions of peace, spirituality, and community. As women we must learn to become leaders in society, not just for our own sake, but for the sake of all people. We must support and protect our kinship with the environment for the generations to come.
CHINA GALLAND
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ģ¬ģ±ė¤ģ ģøź°ź“ź³ģģģ ģ¤ė ķė Øģ¼ė” ģøķ“ —ź·øź²ģ ģ¬ģ±ģ ģ§ź“ģ“ė¼ ķ뤗ģ“ė ź·øė£¹ģģė ķ¹ė³ķ źø°ģ¬ė„¼ ķė¤.
ė§ź°ė ė©ė
Because of their agelong training in human relations— for that is what feminine intuition really is—-women have a special contribution to make to any group enterprise. . .
MARGARET MEAD
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A woman must have money and a room of her own…
ģ¬ģ±ģ ė¶ė øģ¼ ķė ź²ģ ģģ ģ ķ¬ģķė ź²ģ“ ģėė¼ ź·øź²ģ“ ė³ ģėÆøź° ģģ ėģ“ė¤.
ģ¤ ėŖØė”ģ° ė¦°ėė²ź·ø
I believe that what woman resents is not so much giving herself in pieces as giving herself purposelessly.
ANNE MORROW LINDBERGH
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묓ģģøź° ģ¬ģ±ė§ģ“ ķźµ¬ķ ģ ģė ģ¬ģ±ģ ź“ķ 미ģ§ģ ģģģ“ ģė¤ė ź²ģ ėėė¤.
ģ”°ģ§ģ ģ¤ķ¤ķ¼
I feel there is something unexplored about woman that only a woman can explore…
GEORGIA O’KEEFEE
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ģ¬ģ±ģ ģ¶ģ ź°źø° ź°ģ ģ ģ¼ė” 격ģ ģ ģø ģķ©ģ“ė ėģ ģģ£¼ė” ėģź°ź³ ėŖėŖ ź°ė ¬ķ ź²½ķė¤ģ ėØź¹ģ¼ė”ģØ ģ¤ģ ģøģė¤ģ“ ģ¼ė Øģ ėė¼ė§ź° ė ģ ģė¤.
ģė¦¬ģ¤ ģ¬ģØ, ģģ ź³µģė¶ģø
A woman’s life can really be a succession of lives, each revolving around some emotionally compelling situation or challenge, and each marked off by some intense experience.
WALLIS SIMPSON, DUCHESS OF WINDSOR
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ģ¬ģ±: ź·øģ ėģ ģ¬ģ¹ģź² ģėķė źµ¬ģ, ķź³ģ, ź¶ģė ģ ėķ ėģģ, ź·øė¦¬ź³ ź·øģ ģ ė¹ķØģ ģķ ģ£ģø.
ķ¬ė ė”ģ°ėė
Woman: the peg on which the wit hangs his jest, the preacher his text, the cynic his grouch and the sinner his justification.
HELEN ROWLAND
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ģ¼źø°ė„¼ ģ°ė ź²ģ ģ°©ķ ģ¬ģė¤ģ“ė¤. ėģ ģ¬ģė¤ģ ķģ“ ģ ķ ģ ėė¤.
ķė£°ė¼ ė± ķ¬ķ¤ė
It’s the good girls who keep the diaries; the bad girls never have the time.
TALLULAH BANKHEAD
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ź³ ėģ ģ¬ģ±ģ ķ ė ķģģ²ė¼ ģė°°ėģė¤!
ė¼ģ“ģ“ ķė¼ģ°ģ¹“
In the Primordial Age Woman Was Once the Sun!
RAICHO HIRATSUKA
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ģ¬ģ±ė¤ģ ģ¤ė«ėģ ģ¬ģģ¼ė” ė¶ė¦¬ģ“ ģė¤. ķģ§ė§ ź·øė¤ģ ģźµģ ģė¬“ė° ź°ģ¹ź° ģė¤.
…Women have been called queens for a long time, but the kingdom given them isn’t worth ruling.
LOUISA MAY ALCOTT
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ź°ģ± ģ ģ°ė¦¬ź° ģ“ģ°Øķ¼ ķź² ė ģ¼ģ ėķ“ źø°źŗ¼ģ“ ģ§ė¶ķė ź°ģ“ė¤.
ģ“ģ¬ė²Ø ķėė
Guilty is the price we pay willingly for doing what we are going to do anyway.
ISABELLE HOLLAND
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ģ¬ģė ģ¼ėØ ģøź°ģ“ ėģ“ė ģ¢ė¤. ė“ź²ė ģ¬ģ±ģø ź²ģ“ 먼ģ ģ“ė¤.
ģėģ“ģ¤ ė
It’s all right for a woman to be, above all, human. I am a woman first of all.
ANAIS NIN
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ėØģģė ģ¬ģ±ģ“ė ģģ ź±°ģė ė¬¼ź³ źø°ģ ź°ė¤.
źøė”리ģ ģ¤ķ ģ“ė“
A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.
GLORIA STEINEM
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ė“ź° ģė ģķ¼ģ°ėؼģ“ė ģģ ģ ė§ė£»ė°ė„ģ ģė” ė¬øģ§ė¬ ė¦ė ģ¬ėģ“ė¤.
ė² ķø ėÆøė¤ė¬
My idea of superwoman is someone who scrubs her own floors.
BETTE MIDLER
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ģ¬ģ±ģ ė¶ė§ģ ź·ø ģ ėģ ė°ė¼ ģ ķķ ė¹ė”ķ“ģ ģ¦ź°ķė¤.
ģ리ģė² ģ¤ ģ¼ģ“ė ģ¤ķ ķ¼
Woman’s discontent increases in exact proportion to her development.
ELIZABETH CADY STANTON
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ģģ± ź°ģė ģ¬ģ±ģ ė“ź² ķėŖ ģ“ė¼ė 볓ģ¬ģ£¼ė©“ ėė ėØģ ķė ģ ė³“ģ¼ ģ ģė¤.
ģ리칓 ģ
Show me a woman who doesn’t feel guilty and I’ll show you a man.
ERICA JONG
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ėė ķėģ ģ§ķ±ķź³ ģė ģ¬ģģ“ė¤.
ė¬“ģ§ź°ė ėģ ėźøøė¤ģ ģ¤ģ³ģ§ėź°ė¤.
ķģģ ė“ ģź¶ź¹ģ§ ķµė”넼 ė§ė¤ģ“ ģ¤ė¤.
ėģ ģź°ģ źµ¬ė¦ģ ėŖØģ ė§ķ¼ģ“ė ė¤ģķė¤.
ķģ§ė§ ź·ø ė»ģ ģģ§ ģ ģ ģė¤.
ģ ķø ģøėģø ģ
I am the woman who holds up the sky.
The rainbow runs through my eyes.
The sun makes a path to my womb.
My thoughts are in the shape of clouds.
But my words are yet to come.
POEM OF THE UTE INDIANS
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ģ¬ģ±ė¤ģ ė§ė²ģ ģ§ė, ė³øėė³“ė¤ ė°°ė” ģ»¤ģ§ź² ė§ėė ė§¤ė „ģ ģø ź¶ė „ģ ė ģ¦ė„¼ 주ģķė©“ģ ģ ė°±ė ģ ź±øģ³ ģģ¤ ė¤ģ“ģė¤.
ė²ģ§ėģ ģøķ
Women have served all these centuries as looking glasses possessing the magic and delicious power of reflecting the figure of man at twice its natural size.
VIRGINIA WOOLF
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ģ¬ģ±ģ ėŖØė ź²ģ“ ź°ė„ķė¤. ģ ķµģ ģø ģ¬ģ±ģ“ ėė ź²ė ź“ģ°®ė¤. ģ§ģ„ ģ¼ģ ķ ģė ź°ģ¬ė„¼ ķ ģė ģė¤. ģ ź·¹ģ ģ“ź±°ė ģėģ ģ“ ė ģė ģė¤. ėØģ±ź³¼ ķØź» ģģ ė ģ“ė¤ ģģ“ė ź·øė ź° ģķė ėė” ė ģ ģė¤. ķģ§ė§ ģ¤ė ė ģ²ė¼ ė¤ģķ ģ ķģ§ė¤ģ“ ģģ ėė§ė¤ ģ“ė¤ ķź³ ķ ģ§ģ¹Øģ“ ģė¤ė©“ ģ¶ģ“ ėė ¤ģ ģ§ ģ ģė¤.
A woman can do anything. She can be traditionally feminine and that’s all right; she can work, she can stay at home; she can be aggressive, she can be passive; she can be anyway she wants with a man. But whenever there are the kinds of choices there are today, unless you have some solid base, life can be frightening.
BARBARA WALTERS
*****
ģ°ė¦¬ė źæ źæ ģź°ģ“ ķģķė¤. ė°ģ¶ķź³ , ģģģ ģ“ė„“ź³ , ģģ²“ė” ģ”“ģ¬ķ“ģ¼ ķ ģź°ė¤.
źøė¼ėģ¤ ķ ģ“ė²
We need time to dream, time to remember, and time to reach the infinite. Time to be.
GLADYS TABER
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ź·øė ź° ė§ķ ėė ģ§ķė”ė¤. ź·øė¦¬ź³ ź·ø ķė ģ¹ģ ķØģ“ė¼ė ė²ģ¹ģ ė°ė„øė¤.
She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
PROVERBS
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ė¬“ģøź° ėźø° ģķ“ ģ¬ģ±ģ ė ėØģė¤ģø ķģź° ģė¤. ė¤ė§ ėģ± ģ¬ģź° ėģ“ģ¼ ķė¤.
ģ리 E. ģ °ģ“ģģø
To be somebody, a woman does not have to be more like a man, but has to be more of a woman.
DR. SALLY E. SHAYWITZ
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ģķź¹ź²ė ģ¬ėė¤ģ ź°ė ė¹ģ ģ“ ė¹ėŖ ģ ģ§ė¬ėģ¼ ģģė£ėė¤.
ģ¤ķ ķģø ķģ
Unfortunately, sometimes people don’t hear you until you scream.
STEFANIE POWERS
*****
ģ¬ģ±ė¤ģ ģ¼ģ ģ¬ģ ģ¼ė” ģ²ė¦¬ķė¤ź³ ģ주 ģģ¬ėė¤. ėė ź·ø ģ“ģ ė ģ ģ§ķź² ė¤ė£Øė ė²ģ 모넸ė¤.
ė§ė¦¬ģ ė§Øģ¤
Women are repeatedly accused of taking things personally. I cannot see any other honest way of taking them.
MARYA MANNES
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ģ§ģ ķ ķģ ģ¬ģøķØģ“ė¤.
루ģ“ģ¤ ė¤ė°øģØ
True strength is delicate.
LOUISE NEVELSON
*****
ģ² ģ ķź² ģģ ģ ģ¼ģė ģ ź²½ģ°ė¼ė ź°ė ģ ģøģķźø° ź·øģ§ģė¤. ėź° 그리 ģ“źø°ģ ģ¼ ģ ģė?
ė§ģ“ķ° ė°ģ»¤
The idea of strictly minding our own business is moldy rubbish. Who could be so selfish?
MYRTIE BARKER
*****
ģ¬ģ±ėÆøė ėØģ±ģ“ ģ§ė ź¶ź·¹ģ ģ°½ģė „ģ“ė¤.
Woman’s virtue is man’s greatest invention.
CORNELIA OTIS SKINNER
*****
ģģ ėØ¹ė ź²ģ ėØ¹ė ź² ģėė¤.
ė² ģ° ė²ģ¤
What you eat standing up doesn’t count.
BETH BARNES
*****
ė“ź° ģź³ ģė ź²ė¤ģ“ ģ ķ ėė µģ§ ģė¤.
ģė ģģ
I am never afraid of what I know.
ANNA SEWELL
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ģ¬ģ±ģ ģ£¼ė¦ź³¼ ģ§ė°©ģ“ ė ģ ģė¤. ź·øė ģ ķė¦¬ģ ź°ģ“ģ ģ“ ė¬“ėģ§ź³ ė¶ģģ“ ėė©° ģ¬ģ§ģ“ ģ ėØøź°ź°ģ ģźø°ė ķė¤. ķģ§ė§ ź·ø ģ“ė ź²ė ź·øė ģ ģ±źø°ė„, ģ¬ģ±ģ±ģ ģģ¤ģ ģ미ķė ź²ģ ģėė¤ . . . .
ė°ė°ė¼ ź³ ė
A woman may develop wrinkles and cellulite, lose her waistline, her bustline, her ability to bear a child, even her sense of humor, but none of that implies a loss of her sexuality, her femininity . . . .
BARBARA GORDON
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ģ¬ģ±ģ ė°ėģ ėź³¼ ģģ ė§ģ ź³µź°ģ“ ģģ“ģ¼ ķė¤.
ė²ģ§ėģ ģøķ
A woman must have money and a room of her own.
VIRGINIA WOOLF
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Nowadays, I am trying to do on a diet using certain diet products. For the diet, a person should not have any meal but only the package of it in a mug cup for one time bite.
It is surely ridiculous human eat overly then try harder to lose it with lots of cost (I do not pay it though as I got it for free). Skipping the feed, it gives me awkward feeling and boredom. I have had something to do at least during the snacks. Then I have to do something else to furfill the time.
I have realized how long I have been consuming my daily routine with meal to forget the boredom with no reason. I often ask people to have lunch or dinner together when I am bored but not hungry. I go grocery shopping to buy food but rarely cook. I order delivery food or eat out whenever I need some fresh change. I constantly search for something to bite. I was obsessed with food to get out of the boredom.
Then I do not know what to do for the extra time without food by this diet. It feels like I have lost the enormous pleasure of my life. Of course, I enjoy things for hobby but still have lots of time to fill in. It does not mean I want to work out hard, try sweating on my body or torture my brain with heavy tasks.
I miss the time I was so captured with something else that I almost forgot to have nutrients only focusing on it. Skipping meal was typical as having food seemed to be waste of time when I was on the state. Currently I feel a bit nervous with the gap what to do instead of eating.
I have always sought for activity or productivity such as movies, art, work out, and so on. I had no idea food was one of them since I have seen that is a natural cycle on a daily basis.
It was just a simple activity on the playground that the kids were playing in teams. Apple didnāt take it serious until other kids got serious.
Apple was in A team and Appleās best friend, S, was in B team. They played in the separated teams as a single player and Apple was also charged in checking the scores of A team.
Playing the game, Apple noticed S missed a ball and lost a single point. Actually it was a bit hard to say clearly if S lost it or not because the timing was quite tricky. It was more like missing the ball anyway although S caught it again. Apple might have more believed that S did not miss it because S was her best friend. So Apple said so.
The thing Apple missed was that the game was at the final round and Sā point was important for winning of the game. Appleās team lost in the game by this and A team was furious about the result. After the game, the kids in the A team all asked Apple if she saw it clearly S did not miss the point.
Apple was embarrassed to answer their questions because she did not remember the scene clearly and she just simply wanted her close friend to get the score. Seeing the palsā serious reactions, Apple realized her judgement was not that simple thing to be.
Apple had no idea about winning and losing like the other kids. In fact, she was not even interested in the game at all. Reminding the scene, Apple was thinking about something else at the moment. Then suddenly the children all gathered around Apple and were demanding her clear answer.
āWell…S got the point…I guess…?ā
A team seemed to be all doomed as Apple answered in doubts.
āWe have to score it again! S missed the ball! I saw it clearly and Apple is also not sure about that!ā
“What are you talking about? She said S got the point!”
One kid shouted and then it was chaos after that. Children were separated in two groups again and started arguing who lost it and won. A team could not admit they lost the game and B team was same to take their victory back.
Apple felt awkward what to do for the things around her. It seemed to be too late to say the truth who won the game which would make both teams upset whatever the result was. As more time passed by, the more Apple felt confused what the truth was but the one thing was clear that Apple felt very uncomfortable about the both teamsā aggressive, competitive desires to win.
Kids from both teams came to Apple one by one and asked several but similar questions.
āYou did not see that clearly, did you?ā
āWe can win if you say the truth now, Appleā
āWhy donāt you say that clearly we won the game, we won the game, right?ā
Now Apple felt a headache with the strong tensions. The ground was swirling and falling towards her. She was suddenly afraid what would happen to S if she took her saying back. B team would blame S that she made her team lose the game.
While the kids were still arguing about that, Apple met S on the playground after the break time. Then S asked the same thing to Apple.
āDid you really see it clearly, Apple? If it is for me, I am fine. You can say that I lost the point if it is as it is.ā
Wish Apple could do it as S said. S seemed to know why Apple did it and be more worried about lying rather than losing the game. The thing was that Apple was not even sure what the truth was and she was not willing to say the truth in the midst of the arguments. At least Apple had to say it clearly S lost the point if she was not sure if S won the point but Apple was not sure about it either.
S seemed to be ok to accept the truth but now Apple was not ok at this moment. Apple did it first for Sā sake and now S did not want Appleās favor so that Apple could say the truth. Though Apple realized it was time to keep her dignity whatever the truth was.
The dignity Apple might have ignored the truth so made her team lose the game over friendās small benefit which was Appleās thoughtful consideration that nobody wanted now.